Monday, July 13, 2015

OPERATION: 411 ON UNIVERSAL ENROLLMENT

OPERATION: 411 ON UNIVERSAL ENROLLMENT 

My location: One Newark Universal Enrollment Center, 7/13/15, 10:35 am, 301 W. Kinney St. 

             I got in my car and took a drive to see what was going on since it was the first day of Open Enrollment at the One Newark Universal Enrollment Center. As I approached, I circled the block a few times to scope out the security at the front entrance of the center. The entrance was moved since the last time I was there. All appeared to be calm. I pulled over a few blocks down, flipped my #PARENTPOWER t-shirt inside out, put on my cap, grabbed my cup of coffee and headed on to the entrance.


As I approached the entrance to the courtyard, a security guard greeted me pleasantly. Mind you, in the past I would get thrown out or not even let in. Luckily a little weight gain, a beard and hat did the trick. Going incognito is now what parents have to do to investigate the district and see what is going on. I felt like a secret agent about to infiltrate enemy territory. At the door, a smiling Newark Public Schools employee named Brittney, who had about three NPS security guards around her, greeted me. She asked me my reason for coming and I told her I was there to find out more about enrolling my 4-year-old in the pre-school across the street from me. She told me to enter the first classroom and gave me small card with a number 1 on it. I WAS IN! Easy Breezy.


The classroom was arranged like a Motor Vehicle Center. You had to put your name on a list at a long desk separating the people from the registration stations. I entered a fictitious name. I was number 42, although there appeared to be more than 42 people seated. I overheard some of the parents saying, “This is ridiculous!” “Why can’t I go right to the school and register?” “Why are they making us go through this whole process?” I gently and quietly leaned over to the mom sitting next to me and said, “It feels like the DMV.” She told me this was her third time to the center and was told that she would need to come down in person to find a match for her child. As with the tension from the patrons who are at the will of the Division of Motor Vehicles clerks, so were these parents! When their number was called, they sat at a station with an NPS employee and were told where their children would be going to school in the fall. The process was definitely more structured and calculated than past enrollment sessions.

I got up and went out to Brittney and told her that I didn’t think I had time to wait, and did she know how many preschool seats were left? She said, “No” with that pretentious NPS smile they are trained to give. I then asked where the rest room was and was told to head down the hall. GREAT! Just what I wanted to see: what was going on in the other rooms! Heading to the restroom, I saw a familiar face that possibly would blow my cover. It was Dr. Lauren Wells, Chief Education Officer for Mayor Ras Baraka. She said, “Hey Frank!” I was hoping she would not say anything to the NPS staff about who I was! I quickly headed to the restroom. On my way, I made sure to look in every room. Each one represented a grade or group of grades with the same scene: parents signing in, waiting for their name to be called and sitting at desks with NPS employees getting their placements. The classrooms were guarded with at least two security guards. If you didn’t have that little card from Brittney with a number on it, you were not allowed in the classroom.



On my return from my restroom trip, I passed what looked to be the school’s main office. All the main NPS players were inside including Ruben RobertsExecutive Director of Community Affairs and Engagement, and Vanessa Rodriguez, Chief Talent Officer. There were also a few other district staff members outside speaking with parents. As I slowed my stroll past the conversations, I could hear parents were very upset. Their children were not being placed where they wanted them to be educated. One staff member told a parent, “If you are going to talk to me in a calm manner, I will speak with you, but if you get loud I will not!” The parent said, “I am pissed off and want my kids to go where I say they should go, not you!” This is typical of the upset and angry conversations that have been going on between Newark parents and the Newark Public Schools central office staff for the last year and a half. Vanessa Rodriguez walked out of the office, passed the upset parents and headed down the hall to the Pre-K enrollment class I originally was in. I followed right behind her. She relieved the staff member and began assisting a bilingual family looking for placement. In the 30 minutes I stood there, I did not hear one single parent called to a station. 


Dr. Lauren Wells entered the room. I knew she was there to get the info and I wanted to know as well. We as parents need to let our fellow parents know! All the district staff immediately perked up and automatically went on alert. I moved closer to get within earshot of what was being said. Dr. Wells was asking all the same questions my parent team was messaging me to find out: How was the process going? How were families being treated? How many available seats were opened in the district? What did the numbers look like?

I followed her out of the room. I have always had respect for Dr. Wells because she has always treated me with respect. I told her I was here to get the 411 and she gave me a smile. I asked if she knew how many seats were available, but she didn’t know. She asked Brittney and got the standard, “I don’t know” reply. They surely get paid a lot for not knowing anything!

Dr. Wells was then met by Ruben Roberts. He was dressed in his best linen suit and he immediately gave the canned district responses. There was a bulletin board by the Pre-K room with postings that showed how many seats were available in each school. It was hard to take a snapshot of it as security and NPS district employees were guarding the info. Dr. Wells asked if the list was accurate with numbers and Roberts said that it changed frequently. She asked if the information was online for the public and he said, “The list is just for us, the numbers are changing all the time.” When Dr. Wells asked if families were being helped, he responded, “They are being placed, but it may not be where they hoped to be placed.”

Dr. Wells and I walked out through the courtyard of the Enrollment Center together. I again told her that I was here to get a report for the team and parents we serve. I said, “Looks kind of organized, better than it did in previous enrollment sessions.” Dr. Wells responded, “Organized…Organized Chaos.” We agreed with a smile. I wished Dr. Wells a good day, got in my car, flipped my #PARENTPOWER t-shirt the right way and headed home.

It is a shame that the city can’t even get the district to give us information that should be available to the public. When the deal was made that Chris Cerf would be the bargaining tool used for start of return to local control, we should have had an immediate moratorium on the One Newark Program. The district should have returned to having parents register their child at their local neighborhood schools. Remember those long registration lines outside the schools? Those lines don’t look too shabby right now. We as parents have to educate ourselves on how we are being treated by the district. A parent should not have to go incognito into an enrollment center just to ask some questions from district employees. That’s what they get those big salaries for, not for standing around saying, “I don’t know” and giving out hall passes. What “talent” does it take to do that? I guess I will have to continue to go incognito to find out the process and get information to my parent team and the parents we serve. The district should know that there are many of us and no matter how hard they try to keep it secure…WE WILL INFILTRATE!

#PARENTPOWER 


Monday, July 6, 2015

NEWARK IS READY & CAPABLE TO CHOOSE OUR OWN SUPERINTENDENT!

NEWARK IS READY& CAPABLE TO CHOOSE OUR OWN SUPERINTENDENT!


For over 20 years the people of Newark have been under the hands of the State of NJ and our public schools have not prospered! We have dealt with appointees like Cami Anderson brought us “solutions” like One Newark, causing absolute chaos with in our community! It has been an attack on our community neighborhood schools month after month year after year.  Now we have Governor Christie running for a presidential seat and he is holding over our head issues like Common Core and restoring Local Control over our heads. Issues that we,as Newarkers , have been fighting for years!

It’s very easy to say what Newarks need or want when you don’t live in our great city. To suit from afar and project what is best for our children and families! To write blogs and use our families and city as a petri dish of hot topics to speak upon. We look at other towns and see the freedom they have to follow the democratic process that all Americans should have. Yet, the “ poor and disenfranchised “ people of Newark are treated disrespectful by our local, state and federal government. 

Instead of given the right and freedom to follow the democratic process of having our Board, with whom we elected to make decisions and let the people choose our replacement for Cami Anderson as Newark Public School Superintendent, we are told “ Ya want Local Control restored, Newark you must deal with another appointed Superintendent Christopher Cerf!” Is that really the local control we have been fighting for all these years? Hell no! It is yet again having the state tell us that we the people of Newark are unable to follow the democratic process that the rest of the state has the freedom to follow. In turn it ultimately is saying to parents, who pay taxes and vote, “YOU DO NOT KNOW WHATS BEST FOR YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR CHILDREN!”

 What the hell are we teaching our children? That it is OK to just roll over and allow our democratic rights to be stripped and taken away from us?  That is insane!
Mark Beidon , President of State of NJ Board of Education stated “ the people of Newark having local control over their school district is a good thing!” So, Mr Beidon and Governor Christie why in the world would you rip our democratic rights from us and appoint Cerf to our school district without Newarkers having a say! He is unqualified for the job!

-         He trained and appointed Cami Chaos as an appointee to dismantle the Newark Public School System implementing the One Newark Program.
-         Her has his hands all in corporate schemes to expand the charter movement with companies he has great involvement in. Making his abilities to serve the Public School in our community families a huge conflict of interest.
-         He sat on the Board of Charter Schools Alliance and just recently stepped down after being exposed by the public.

WE DO NOT NEED THE CORPORATE SCHEMES OF CERF TO COME IN AND “FINISH  OFF” THE DISMANTLING OF OUR PUBLIC SCHOOL SYSTEM TO ALLOW THE CHARTER MOVEMENT TO ENGULF OUR COMMUNITY! LET NEWARKERS SAY WHAT IS BEST FOR NEWARKERS! NOT CORPORATE AND POLITICAL BULLIES! WE DON’T NEED COMMITTEES TO TELL US WHAT’S BEST AND WE DON’T NEED APPOINTEES TO TELL US WHAT IS BEST!

An open letter to President Beidon was sent to him to tell him to not vote for Cerf to be appointed as Superintendent of Newark Public Schools. Here is the open letter. PLEASE SHARE AND PASS IT ON! WE MUST FIGHT FOR OUR DEMOCRATIC RIGHTS! BOY I NEVER IN MY LIFE THOUGHT I WOULD BE FIGHTING FOR RIGHTS THAT I THOUGHT AS AMERICANS WE HAD THE RIGHT TO POSSES!

OPEN LETTER T O PRESIDENT BEIDON OF STATE BOE:

Newark Residents Should Select Their Next Superintendent
We believe that the people of Newark should be able to democratically govern their public schools.
Fortunately, Mark Biedron, President of NJ’s State Board of Education, seems to agree. Mr. Biedron recently told the Star Ledger that “the people of Newark having local control over the school district…is a good thing.”
On Wednesday, Mr. Biedron will have anOPPORTUNITYhttp://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.pngto act on this belief when the State Board votes on whether Chris Cerf should become Newark’s next Superintendent.
If the State Board approves Mr. Cerf, it will beCONTINUINGhttp://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.pnga 20 year history of disenfranchisement for Newark’s nearly 300,000 residents, who have had no say in this decision.
If the Board rejects Mr. Cerf and instead approves a candidate selected by Newark’s popularly-elected Board ofEDUCATIONhttp://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png, it will be putting Mr. Biedron’s admirable philosophy into practice.
There is plenty of precedent for allowing Newark to select its own superintendent.
Newark, Jersey City, and Paterson are all state–controlled school districts.  Yet Jersey City’s popularly–elected Board of Education selected its Superintendent, Marcia Lyles.  Paterson’s Superintendent, Dr. Donnie Evans, was selected by a committee that included members of Paterson’s popularly-elected Board of Education, along with other community leaders.  In contrast, Newark’s popularly-elected Board of Education has had no voice in selecting Mr. Cerf, who was nominated for thisPOSITIONhttp://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png by Governor Christie.
Approving Mr. Cerf is also difficult to justify because Mr. Cerf lacks the qualifications necessary to run New Jersey’s largest school district.  Unlike Jersey City’s and Paterson’s leaders, Mr. Cerf has no prior experience as a superintendent.
Nor is there a record of success in related public-educationPOSITIONShttp://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png on which to base Mr. Cerf’s nomination.  In fact, Mr. Cerf’s tenure as New Jersey’s Commissioner of Education was marked by numerous poor decisions regarding Newark, including:
  • Appointing andCONTINUINGhttp://cdncache-a.akamaihd.net/items/it/img/arrow-10x10.png to support Newark’s prior Superintendent, Cami Anderson, whose policies and behaviors generated broad-based rejection and rebellion from Newark residents;
  • Improperly giving in to a demand from Ms. Anderson “to allow her to retain full control over 28 low-performing schools,” which resulted in New Jersey failing to comply with federal requirements; and
  • Forcibly maintaining State control of Newark’s schools by dramatically lowering the district’s scores on the State’s monitoring system (QSAC) from the scores that Mr. Cerf had given the district less than a year earlier.
The people of Newark deserve the right to select their next Superintendent.  They also deserve an experienced public education leader with a proven record of success.  Mr. Cerf’s candidacy fails on all these counts.
We encourage Mr. Biedron and the other State Board of Education members to vote no on Mr. Cerf’s nomination and to allow Newark’s popularly-elected Board of Education to nominate the district’s next Superintendent.
Newark’s residents have been deprived of their right to democratically control their public schools for 20 years.  It is long past time to correct this wrong!

Rosie Grant, Piscataway, NJ
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 Laura Begg, Bernards Township, NJ
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Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Not only am I a Dad, I am a Buzzkill!

Not only am I a Dad, I am a Buzzkill!


I must have been born a buzzkill, one who looks at the glass half empty! I can't help but be puzzled why people are standing up and cheering at the announcement that Newark's Superintendent Cami Anderson is " Stepping Down" and being replaced with Christopher Cerf? I am not trying to steal anyone's feelings of being happy, joyous and free from Anderson. The way I look at it is she was an absentee Superintendent anyway, did ya really deal with her? She didn't attend board meetings, she rarely dealt with the public nor did she sit at the table with parents for our input. Anderson in my opinion was only a chew toy for the public to gnaw on while the gestapos at the state initiated every tactic they could to demolish Public Education in the city of Newark. They can deny it, go right ahead, we all believe ya Govenah!


Actually, thinking back, I did have the privilege to meet Cami Chaos! How could I forget, I was selected as Parent of the year a few years back for the East Ward of Newark and had to attend a board meeting at Barringer High. They called me up, she bestowed upon me a certificate saying
"Parent of the Year" with her John Hancock right on it! She shook my hand ( and gave me the cooties) and A photo was snapped of us ( I would kill for that picture). I took my seat and she began a Power Point presentation about a new concept called One Newark. That would give " Choice " to every family in Newark. This was prior to her unveiling on Dec. 17, 2013. Probably a year prior. I had no concept of what was going on and was giddy that I was Parent of The Damn Year! Who cares about your presentation, Mrs. Anderson, IT IS ALL ABOUT ME!    Do you know that I actually had that framed and kept it as a symbol of the work I did in the community! Flash forward to about Feb 2014, at another board meeting, ironically, I stood up basically told Cami she sucked a bag of balls, held up my Parent of the Year Certificate she bestowed on me 2 years prior and told her from her...It didn't mean CRAP! I then proceeded to rip it up in front of her. How can I forget all that! Selective amnesia! 

I did a telephone interview with WABC yesterday and the interviewer Jerry asked me" Frankie, are you happy that she is gone, you personally, not how the city feels." My response was" It is not about Cami! Cami was a name on a demand, A face on posters and memes. A face to frustration! In the last year my attitude towards her changed in the way that she is just the smoke and mirrors to distract us. Some fall for it and honestly, I did.  Now I see her departure as what they replace her with will be ten times worse. Now we are dealing with having Christopher Cerf coming in. The epitome of Corporate America Scoundrel! He will sit at board meetings and take public lashings and not raise a pulse! He will get the job done Anderson couldn't!  So NO Jerry, not to be a buzzkill but I am not happy and do not see this as a time to rejoice or be proud."  I used to cosign with a "LIST OF DEMANDS" that was passed around Newark. While they were powerful to some now, I do not think we are the ones who are the captors! The only RIGHT we have is that we should have local control over our school district! That should not be a demand. Especially when the State of NJ has done such a bang up job with the schools in the last 20 plus years! So to me Jerry that is the only win! Local Control. That will make me happy and have a reason to feel we are accomplishing things." 

Parents and residents of the City of Newark have a tremendous amount of "situations" going on. Cami exiting and what about her bonuses?  Cerf taking over for 3 years while we continue to fight for Local Control. We have the Govenah, breaking rights and laws especially, refraining from changing the language in legislation being passed that will allow Charter School expansion in our city that will absorb $25 million dollars from our Newark Public School budget to go to charters!  Our Senate President Stephen Sweeney is in on it and turns his sprinklers and garden hose on those who tell him when they don't like his actions. We have right here in Newark our always fabulously dressed and manicured Senator Teresa Ruiz, who will sell every Newarker, their child and their little dog too for power to remain seated in the decision making of the destruction of our city and state!

We are witnessing a full on war to extinct the Newark Public School System. A a schools culture that is developing my very child. A child who has aspirations to be an Architect. Who has taken Mandarin Chinese for 4 years. who has access to technology like 3D printing and phenomenal STEM instruction. He knows about wind turbines, how they work and how the environment can save on resources. Who is exposed to Arts and Music. Who has reached academic honors his whole time spent in Newark Public Schools. The same school system that generations of Adaos before him have come through. A system that allowed them the right to an education just by walking in and singing their child up! That produced chefs, law enforcement detectives, Vice Presidents of fortune 500 corporations, fire chiefs and Directors of Finance for major corporations. 
This is what you want to shut down and replace with what? Cherry picking students and providing them lackluster academics and career paths. 

Your right! It is not about Charter Vs. Public Schools. Fess up the truth. Put your big boy and girl corporate panties on and tell the damn truth! Private funders see the golden calf that is profits on Education! The false images of Chartres producing "college ready" geniuses is a figment of great marketing! There is no proof or data supporting this claim. There are no "waiting lists" with thousands of families waiting on bated breath for that one great phone call that will change their child's life!  When that charter fails to provide academic programming for the child where do they turn to? Newark Public Schools. When they do not have the ability to provide athletic programming for the child where do they turn to? Newark Public Schools. When they make empty promises and run out of funding where do they drain from Newark Public Schools.

We are hearing promises from those we had hopes for. That would represent all the people and their needs for this city. We hear about all these transitional teams and how they will help guide us through and build policy for our city, but it is the same damn people who are always at the table! I by all means do not want a seat at the table. There are far more experienced parents and citizens who need to sit there before I do. However, the scene is more like always the same party of eight, than gathering input from true Newarkers in the areas of the specialty!  When I see troublemakers and paid organizers who are up to no good and I know it from my own experiences, I have a hard time having blind trust and faith in leadership that will only listen to what they want to hear rather than maybe what they need to hear! Here I go again, being the buzzkill! Not wanting to go along with the herd. That now labels you a Non-Newarker!That is total absurdity! 

 We have potentially the aspect of having a casino come into our community and if you went to school, lived or even played in Atlantic City about 20 years ago, you would know the element that it brings is not the glitz and glam that comes with "Letting It Ride!"  We even have Prudential building and expanding but where are the jobs for our Newarkers? They can put grass on the side of a building but cant find a way to find Newarkers jobs in their company!

Is this the change I was promised? Is this the"Choice" that I expect? Some may say well you don't like it pack your shit and leave! To them I say, my family has been in this city for generations! Their, blood sweat and tears help build this city! We have seen elected officials come and go, development in our city, growth in our city, heartbreak in our city, a renaissance in our city! THIS IS A WHOLE HELL OF A LOT TO HAVE TO TAKE IN AND DEAL WITH! I was told that some times you feel like you are playing "WHACK A MOLE!" That is exactly what Newarkers are going through! When one issue (mole) gets thrown our way, another issue(mole)  jumps out and it's on and on! So yes, until the moles are eradicated from the city that I love...I will continue to be the buzzkill that holds the paid organizers, the corporate scoundrels, the elected officials, the media, the party of eight...accountable. 
Maybe accountability is the new buzzkill?  

Thursday, June 11, 2015

STANDARD TO THE CORE

"STANDARD." In the last three  years that word has such a new meaning for me. I am big on looking impactful words up so when I looked up the word STANDARD, this is its definition according to Webster (and not the lil guy...one of my favorite shows ever) : 

: regularly and widely used, seen, or accepted : not unusual or special

: generally accepted and used because of high quality or excellence

: accepted and used by most of the educated speakers and writers of a language

Full Definition
1a :constituting or conforming to a standard especially as established by law or custom <standard weight>
b :sound and usable but not of top quality <standard beef>

2a :regularly and widely used, available, or supplied <standard automobile equipment>

b :well-established and very familiar <the standard opera>

My whole life since I was a child I was told " be unique" dont settle for just the "standards in life!" So, I did just that! I always marched to the beat of my own drum. I didn't settle for any of the definitions above because I was taught by my parents and family to not accept  standards. My teachers, instrumental  in my life, told me "reach beyond the standards! The world is yours! REACH BEYOND THE STANDARDS!" I grew up in the 70's, a bicentennial baby to be exact, so I know some of the ways of life back then were now considered "far out" & "groovy", but I that was the essence of my entire life! The seed that was planted even back then. To reach beyond standards. Not settle for anything less than I wanted and I took that with me in my whole life thus far.

Now, flash forward to today and the word STANDARD is a common fabric in which our society strives for. Everyone is trying to reach a predetermined standard! A standard of living, standards for eating, standards of body images and stanadrds of Education. We have gone beyond what our own standards may look like. Some guy somewhere is like "This needs to be the standard!" Then everyone follows without a question! Look at multibillion dollar diet industry. One day, dont eat meat. The next its Paleo a meat lovers diet! Standards are now the finish line!

In today's educational system, we have done away in forty-three of our states the ability to be better , individual or unique. Those conversations with educators about going against the grain of standards can literally lead to performance infractions or worse dismissal! If you want your child to be able to develop in an environment of individualism, you will have to pack up house and explain to your employer you are moving to one of the few states who have opted out of these standards and are seeking uniqueness for your child and family! As you walk out the door, chances are they will have no clue what the hell you are talking about! If you are someone  flocking to Colorado, they will automatically label your move for something  else rather than trying to find "uniqueness!"

Here in NJ over the last twenty years or so we have totally traded in that yester-year mentality of "Seek Individualism!" Our children are being ripped from being individuals to being cultivated by Corporate America, for profit testing companies, technology companies and political investors. They now create the standards! Some frumpy overweight guys onced bullied probably  on the school yard for being different.  We have seen school districts demolish Creative Arts programs, Physical Education programs, Special Education programs and replace them with more instructional time on test taking in Mathematics and English Language Arts for tests like NJASK and PARCC. Since those are indeed the onky factors we rate achievement. Our own Governor, Chis Christie staunchly faught parents for years who protested for Common Core standards to be obliterated. In just recent weeks for what many are calling an obvious political tactical move as he takes steps for a 2016 Presidential Nomination, has had a sudden change of heart? However, only on the surface. He is still adament about having core standards in our schools and thinks that possibly changing names of these core standards will fake and move his constituents who oppose his efforts and cast a vote for him come 2016. He also persists that standardized tests like the PARCC and relationships with testing companies such as Pearsons move forward. What is his true stake in this all. His own children are not upheld to these standards. They can dream a lil dream. Why can't ours?

Thanks to No Child Left Behind, these standards have left so many of our children just that... behind. Behind the standard of what society tells them they are capable of. A sociecty who as even left our children of Special Needs out of the picture. Making it almost  impossible to reach goals for their children. Unable to obtain  a dreammof their own and when they don't  they are tossed to the waste side. I thought it was NO CHILD LEFT BEHIND right? Instead, what it is doing is systematically weeding out the unique and the individual. The Dreamer. The Pretender. Glorifying the Standard!

Again, sure there should be a standard of achievement, but walk into any classroom...oh wait if you are a parent those days are over! You can no longer just walk into a classroom or a school for that matter. If you could, you would see the faces of those trying to become standard. To fit a mold of someone else's  standards. Maybe, standards set up so they will never achieve or standards never meant to achieve when they were created for them.  So our future generations of Picasso, Mozart, Maya Angelou, Bosquiat, Frida Kahlo, Salvador Dali, Martin Luther King Jr., and Stevie Wonder will fade until every child is conditioned to want to be standard. To sit in a cubical and to speak from a script. To program from a script without that thought of dreaming to become more than the standard. Out of the box. To color outside the lines.

It is to that child who dares to be different, I dedicate this entry. Standards will not get us in the running of other countires who are leaving us in the dust.  It is the dreamer, the pretender, the special  child that will propel this country and its future  generations of children...not someone elses standard! Look out the window, take a pause and dream the biggest dreams! Be different! Be unique! Be anything but standard!

Monday, June 8, 2015

Can Parents Do MORE?

I am often asked the question being a founder of the Newark Parents Union " are parents doing enough to stand up for our children in society today?"  My answer to that is usually the same" As parents working and raising kids in those dedicated to the fight for our children, are doing the best we can!" However, as unpopular as this may sound, is that answer now enough? I say is that enough because we have had almost every day this past week, an issue with lock downs all overt the state.
Taken from
NJ Schools Security Scares

New Jersey on Monday.
"• Cranford High School in Union County and neighboring Brookside Place School operated under a shelter-in-place order after the high school received a threatening phone call around 10 a.m., school officials said.
 At Indian Fields Elementary School in South Brunswick, an all-clear was given after students were evacuated due to reports of two possibly unauthorized people inside the building. Two city librarians were buzzed into the school but did not check in at the main office.
 Macopin Middle School in West Milford was placed on lockdown after a bomb threat was phoned in.
 Marlboro Middle School in New Jersey also received a phone call shortly before 1 p.m., which prompted an evacuation. Kids were taken to another location and then eventually dismissed early.
Meanwhile in Middleton, New York, Maple Hill Elementary School was placed on lockdown after a threat was called in there, police said."
Just today in Newark, there was a lock down as rumors spread around the Ivy Hill Elementary school that a gun was brought into the building! The situation was handled by Newark Police and is under investigation by local police. This latest event happening with 150 security guards being slatted to be laid off!  What is going on in our school systems? Not just in the inner city, but across the state...across the country? Have we as parents, never mind teachers, veered so far off the tracks of parenthood that #2 pencils have been replaced in our children's book bags with 9 millimeters? Have we been distracted with things like fighting against corporate administration clones, Common Core Standards, PARCC, One Newark and State political bullies , that maybe we are dropping the ball at home? Have our kids just had enough and has the adult world that is supposed to be leading the examples gone and pushed them " Over The Edge" 
I am always advocating for the parent voice out in the community and on social media and to me that is a big part of reigning this all back in. They have witnessed a parental loss in power. The see that parents are not standing up as much, included in children rights as much and have been not only excluded from seats at the table we have been pushed away and forced now to sit at the kiddie table! The youth in our society, due to the depiction of today's parents, has forced themselves to protect themselves! Maybe they are running to easier solutions because they have no adult guidance to show them they have someone willing to stand up for them. 

When I go to important legislation hearings and votes on the state level, you would think with all the spotlight issues impacting our children like Education, Nutrition or even Safety are getting in the mainstream media, these important hearings and voting sessions would be packed, wall to wall with parents from across the state. You would think some of these issues would be warrant enough to say " Hey let me see whats going down there at the State House." Now, before you start firing off the hate mails or throwing dagger comments saying" Parents need to work!" Who's going to pay the bills?" I get it, however, to a degree I am sympathetic to that reply. I understand fully the value of parents needing to be in the work place and providing for their families, but when your child's school is closing and you have no more neighborhood school to take them to and have to now run your child way across town, will you tell them " Well, I need to go to work, honey take the bus to Kindergarten?" When your child comes home from school and at the dinner table says" Johnny brought in a gun to school today and showed me!" Will you say " Here's a bullet proof vest, I have to go to work honey!" 

As parents we have abandoned our true PARENT POWER and have let corrupt school administrations, Reality TV, Grand Theft Auto, Social Media and YouTube step in as the roles of raising our kids! No wonder why they are walking into school with Glock's in their bookbags. Half the times we aren't even allowed in the front doors of our schools with out some type of attitude as if we are trespassing. We have relinquished our greatest gift that has been bestowed onto us and that is the POWER OF BEING A PARENT!  With that we have to assume some of the responsibility of the state of turmoil our children are in. If we do not act swiftly in the awareness of our failures, it will not be too long before the entire youth population turns on us! I can't say that I blame them! These are extremely difficult times we are living in and our children need us to take the wheel back! We need to regain our desire to keep our children as the sole priority! When several schools throughout our state within the last few days have had issues with lock downs and security issues, are we going to wait until it is a Waco or Columbine situation before we take our balls out of our kitchen junk draw and start making some really bold moves to show our children, we are back in the game and care about their life force here on this Earth!

On Saturday evening, The Newark Parents Union, hosted a Light Our Night Sky candlelight vigil to show Unity & Hope for our children and specifically our Public Education here in Newark. It was a powerful and monumental. Something never done in our city or our state for that matter! While the turnout far exceeded my expectations, I was saddened to see that there was not a bigger representation of parents across the state! If we start with 30 of the states most dedicated parents looking to get their PARENT POWER back...than that's a small Parent Army and we will be bad ass and fight for changing the way the Parent is viewed in society! WE CAN SURELY DO MORE PARENTS! OUR JOBS ARE NEVER DONE! 24/7 365! 


LET'S GET THAT PARENT POWER BACK PEOPLE! 




Thursday, May 28, 2015

DING DONG IS NJ COMMON CORE STANDARDS...DEAD?




Ding Dong Common Core Standards...DEAD? 

Is it true? Have you heard the news? I'm sure by now you have and if you were like me your notifications on your smart phones have been blowing up!  At a Republican luncheon this afternoon the Govenah ( best British accent) Chris Christie released this statement... 

"It's now been five years since Common Core was adopted. And the truth is that it's simply not working," Christie says in excerpts released by his office ahead of the speech at Burlington County College. "Instead of solving problems in our classrooms, it is creating new ones. And when we aren't getting the job done for our children, we need to do something different. It is time to have standards that are even higher and come directly from our communities. And, in my view, this new era can be even greater by adopting new standards right here in New Jersey - not 200 miles away on the banks of the Potomac River,"


Say What???? Who is this guy? Did he just do a fake and move and slam dunk an electoral spun house right on Common Core Standards. Ya know the very principles he fought against voters on for years? The same shit he kicked people out of his town halls for saying" Yo Gov...that ain't cool man!" Including yours truly!  In one breeze of a luncheon with his Republican cronies he said "Ahh FUGGEDABOUTIT!"  From what you and I have seen from the guy does it seem too far fetched? 



So if NJ Common Core Standards are not working ( like we have been saying over and over) what about the PARCC? He in this same luncheon stated 
"those higher standards should be determined by the people who are educating the children in those particular states. And my concern about what the administration has done is the federalization of this that takes education further and further away from parents is not the type of education that I think we want in this country or need."   


Yet in that same speech he gave to his buds, who now think he is the second coming of Jesus, stated that  he has no intentions of eliminating the PARCC test and that our NJ students need high standards of testing through the PARCC test! Translation...if you are going to give up Federal Cashola I ain't given up the corporate cash cow of educational testing! So, is he just throwing his voters a bone? Give the dog a bone to chew on and he can run past and steal the goods? We can't be that naive...can we?  


As my smart phone and social media notifications EXPLODE, I am besides myself with some of what I am seeing! Things like" We knew you were a great guy!" " Maybe he will be a great president?" " He is finally listening to the people!" Uh no! Sorry to piss in your cheerio bowls guys! It's called getting ready for his big coming out for the presidential race and doing some damage control for votes in NJ. He wants that white suburban soccer Mom  vote and that white urban soccer Dad with a mini van vote!


If PARCC testing is still being shoved down our kids throats, if teachers are still being evaluated on outcomes of PARCC testing or whatever name they come up with ( think they finally realized oh shit it does spell CCRAP backwards). What the hell are you all jumping for joy for? It's just political nonsense! The money that was wasted in implementing Common Core Standards alone is enough to generate educational programs and clean ups in districts for a few years! You pissed all that money away? Taxpayers money! Hard working people's money! So you can after the masses told ya" Dude shut it down" you just wanted to play who's dick is bigger just to prove all along,  we had the bigger dicks? REALLY Govenah?


Let's just say Chrissy boy is being truthful and he is trying to make amends for his mistake, as a Newarker, I AM STILL NOT SATISFIED! It may sound greedy to those in other areas who may have been fighting so hard for this, but my city is still without Local Control, AND I WANT MORE! If he stood at that podium and said "ya know what I really really jacked things up guys especially in certain cities like Newark and I am truly sorry", maybe he would have a fighting chance! He needed to say along with the elimination of Common Core Standards "I have spoken to Mayor Baraka and effective immediately we are returning full local control to the city of Newark since the state has admittedly failed to make the progress needed. I am asking for the resignation of Cami Anderson immediately. I will meet with parents ( preferably the SOSNJ/Newark Parents Union Parents)  and teachers from the city of Newark and come to a community agreement on how we are best to educate our children!" Now that people is what a man does! Never mind a Governor!


He stated today “ the concerns that I have are significant — and I set a commission up that is now coming back to me with some recommendations, but my charge to them is that we have to keep government at the local level.”  “With education it is most important to have parents involved, there have to be teachers involved as a part of this process and it needs to be part of this process and will be I think as we move forward in New Jersey,”


Well Govenah, now that you are telling the press to keep it local...it is time the state of NJ relinquish it's meat hooks on my city from it's over 20 year Mafioso and let the people of Newark have a say!  We have proven that we have the resourceful and dedicated parents, the students, the workers and the residents to make this happen. So while you take away Common Core...finish the job man! For once just finish the job!  


To my friends out their reading this elated over the news singing " DING DONG NJ COMMON CORE IS DEAD!" remember how it went down in the Wizard of Oz! The house fell...killed one witch...and a bad ass one came right behind it! Those Munchkins shit their pants and ran! Be ready for that next bad ass witch!